Smut in Jesusland: Why Bible Belt States are the Biggest Consumers of Online Porn

porn onlineRed State conservatives may insist that the rest of us should keep aspirin between our knees and be forced to bear Divine Justice Babies when we don’t. They may refuse to provide cake or flowers for gay weddings, or even to attend. They may pretend that teens won’t do it if we just don’t tell them how. They may adopt the Church Lady posture if anyone mentions sex that doesn’t involve one man, one woman, the missionary position and a pulsing desire for more offspring . . . . But online search traffic from behind closed doors in Jesusland suggests that the bad, nasty sexual impulses that righteous believers are trying so hard to shut down may be their own. And if Google search patterns mean anything, they’re not succeeding too well.

A new search analysis adds to the evidence that members of conservative religious communities are America’s biggest porn hounds.

Do as I say, not as I do

For almost two centuries, what happened in the Bible Belt, sexually at least, stayed in the Bible Belt. Oh, sure, there was the odd scandal involving a small town preacher and the pretty young wife of a deacon or youth minister–or, ok, a big name televangelist who, for example, asked male followers to get vasectomies and then examined their swollen willies. And there were the shocking-shocking-I-tell-you revelations of Evangelical leaders feeling up young female interns or paying male call boys or even behaving like Catholic priests. But most people, for some reason have had a hard time considering the possibility that there might be a pattern of correlation between authoritarian religion, sexual repression, and sneaky sex.

Enter the internet, where everything is secret—or not.

Whatever You Have Said in the Dark Will Be Heard in the Light – Luke 12:3

This October two researchers, Cara MacInnis and Gordon Hodson from one of America’s hotbeds of liberal iniquity—urban Toronto—published a study in which they used Google Trends to analyze porn searches. Individual search records are protected by privacy laws, but it is possible to compare the popularity of search terms across various regions or states, which is what they did.

Specifically, MacInnis and Hodson linked information from Gallup polls asking about religious and political attitudes together with a variety of sex and porn related search terms. Their study design involves a number of different comparisons and it considered the effects of other variables like poverty and population. Based on related research and theory, they hypothesized that states with higher levels of religiosity and conservatism would have higher rates of search for sexual content.

They made this prediction, and the data bore it out. More religiosity and conservatism meant more searches on words like sex, gay sex, gay porn, or sex images.

MacInnis and Hodson caution that aggregate data can’t be used to draw conclusions about individuals. Also, their research is open to alternative interpretations: Maybe lonely liberals in Red States are the ones searching for erotica online. But their findings fit with information from other sources: Business Professor Benjamin Edelman at Harvard found, for example, that states with more traditional views of sex and gender have higher rates of paid porn subscriptions—meaning people who are willing to put porn on a credit card.

Strip club owners claim that they make three times as much during Republican conventions as Democratic conventions or even the Superbowl. MacInnis and Hodson quote exotic dancer Layla Love who in 2001 said, “Since the RNC has started, I have actually started to do 15 to 17 h shifts, every day, until the convention is over. So, for basically 7 days straight, I will be in the club, every day, day shift and night shift.”

Methinks Thou Dost Protest Too Much

Ever since Freud first started publishing his theories, psychologists have had a fascination with what he called “defense mechanisms:”

  • Denial means simply refusing to acknowledge that some event or pattern is real.
  • Repression involves pushing uncomfortable thoughts and feelings to the far recesses of the subconscious mind.
  • Reaction formation is saying or doing the opposite of what you really want but won’t allow yourself to express.
  • Projection means assuming that others share the impulses, feelings, and vices that you find unacceptable in yourself.

Freud had a lot of ideas that haven’t withstood the test of time or the scientific method—but defense mechanisms have stuck, in part because they are so useful for explaining some of humanities more bizarre behaviors.

Like, perhaps, the conservative obsession with controlling everyone else’s sexual behavior.

One can almost picture a group of Values Voters at the convention after a night on the town:

Projection: Godless liberals are destroying this country—feminazi sluts demanding sex with no consequences and faggots pushing their gay agenda on our children.

Repression: What?

Reaction formation: This town is full of trashy dancers who wag their big tits and tight asses at honest businessmen—We should lock them up and throw away the key.

Repression: What?

Denial: Real Christians, through prayer, have the power to resist temptation. Only righteous men in public office can stop the moral decay of this sex-obsessed country.

Repression: Did you say something?

Preach What You Practice 

The honest truth is that we all have our failings, Christian or not, liberal or conservative. None of us live up to our most earnest intentions or deepest values. What’s shameful is not the fact that people find sex arousing and seek it out, even when they feel compelled to do so on the sneak. The problem is hypocrisy and the way that it distorts public policies and parenting, causing real harm to real people. For over a decade, conservatives forced abstinence-only education on young people, insisting that hormone ravaged teens should “just say no” when they themselves can’t.

This epic public health fail contributed to the United States having the highest rate of teen pregnancy in the developed world, with devastating economic consequences for young mothers and their offspring. Some thrive despite the odds; many do not. We can do better.

Denying young people information about their bodies doesn’t stop them from having sex. We know that. What it does is create a fog zone, a “haze of misperceptions, magical thinking and ambivalence” that puts teens at risk for sexually transmitted infections and surprise pregnancy. Teens are notorious risk takers. The army sends recruiters into high schools because at age 17 or 18 kids think bad things happen only to other people. Or they simply don’t think. Cognitive scientists tell us that the frontal lobe doesn’t develop fully until the early 20’s.

Add to that a conservative, paternalistic “virginity code” that traces back to ancient times, layering shame, denial and secrecy around sexual exploration. Religious and cultural codes prizing virginity may once have helped to ensure that children were born only when parents could provide for them. But in today’s world, an antiquated purity myth can actually have the opposite effect. To kids who are earnestly trying to live by the spoken rules, planful, protected, “premeditated” sex may feel like a worse transgression than a high risk encounter that erupts in the heat of passion. Young people who have prepared to be safe may get treated as if they were on the make. James Houston’s documentary film, Let’s Talk About Sex, contrasts American and Dutch youth in this regard. What do you think of someone who carries a condom? the filmmaker asks. Teens from the two cultures give opposite responses.

American men, women and—yes—children need honest conversation about the world we actually live in, not some pretense or fantasy about how we think the world should work. We need policies that are grounded in evidence and that recognize the awkward, complicated and sometimes embarrassing reality of what it means to be human. And that includes the fact that most of us really, really like sex.

Related:
Captive Virgins, Polygamy, Sex Slaves: What Marriage Would Look Like if We Actually Followed the Bible
Thirty Signs You’re a Slut

Valerie Tarico is a psychologist and writer in Seattle, Washington. She is the author of Trusting Doubt: A Former Evangelical Looks at Old Beliefs in a New Light and Deas and Other Imaginings, and the founder of www.WisdomCommons.org. Her articles about religion, reproductive health, and the role of women in society have been featured at sites including AlterNet, Salon, the Huffington Post, Grist, and Jezebel. Subscribe at Awaypoint.Wordpress.com.

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11 Responses to Smut in Jesusland: Why Bible Belt States are the Biggest Consumers of Online Porn

  1. gwpj says:

    My experience as a counselor affirms the findings reported in this article, Valerie. It’s something that few people wanted to talk about.

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  2. Valerie, you say “American men, women and—yes—children need honest conversation about the world we actually live in, not some pretense or fantasy about how we think the world should work.”

    I’ll agree with the “need for honest conversation” and that most humans really like sex, and that we need to reject religious hypocrisy and, most important, that we give teens and pre-teens accurate sexuality information.

    So far, so good.

    Where it seems we differ is with your statement about “should.” In my opinion, we need to urge our young people to refrain until they are in a committed relationship.

    That doesn’t mean going back to double standards, unrealistic goals, etc.

    But I do think we should emphasize to pre-teens and teens that sexual expression “should” be reserved for a permanent relationship where they make a voluntary commitment to one other person.

    I realize this is difficult in our present culture and society for a variety of reasons. The most difficult is the fact that many individuals are marrying later than my generation (when all of my friends got married it was before they were 22). Not engaging in sexual activity now until after college, etc, , when one is yet inundated with sexual information through the media, and one is at one’s highest sexual urges, and one hasn’t probably formed strong inner discipline–yes that’s a difficult issue.

    Still, we expect 18 year old teens to be highly disciplined when it comes to academic studies (delaying immediate urges for future reward), even expect such teens to be ready to sacrifice their own lives! if they join the military, etc. It seems that we “should” emphasize the same restraint and discipline and focus for teens when comes to their sexuality.

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  3. shatara46 says:

    Daniel – to equate self-discipline in the area of post-graduate studies with the natural urgings of sex in teenagers, or giving their lives for their “country” (gag me!) is simply ridiculous if not actually lame. Apples and oranges. Teens NEED sex – and yes, I do emphasize the word NEED – and not just teens, but most “Earthians” for most of their adult life – that should be a given to any thinking individual. The problem is not with the need for sex, it’s in a skewed society with skewed mores. Go back to the “naked savages” of pre-European invasion of the paradise of the Caribbeans, for example, to find the proper balance between sexuality and birth rate. No sex problems there… hmmm, wonder why that was and why such an example of proper behavior was so ruthlessly exterminated by those whose descendants shed their crocodile tears over the mess they are now faced with? Abstinence from sex is not in the cards, period. Those who push that agenda better go back to what Valerie quoted about Freud’s findings. Or go a bit further to their infamous bibles and discover all the misdeeds performed under the influence of sexual repression. What did king David do after he raped his general’s wife, Bathsheba and she became pregnant? Just one tiny little example. Read on.
    Want a very simple solution? Let it all go wild. Let those who want to walk around in the nude and “make love” as they see fit, when they see fit. Let NATURE re-assert itself, re-balancing that particular aspect of your artificial society and your problem will disappear. Your descendants won’t even remember your silly and pointless ruminations on “proper” sexual behavior. “Oh my God, are you implying people should parade around nude in “decent” society?” Yes, I am saying that’s what it must come to, even if a few multi-billion dollar clothing manufacturers fall in the dust in the wake of such a revolution. If that grates, ask yourself why people FEEL the NEED to hide their bodies from others? And why they, in apparent contradiction, endlessly seek to peek at those hidden bodies? What’s with that, hey? Could it be something drastically wrong in how man is programmed to view himself contrary to nature? Another thing to consider, however obvious it is: Earthians are NOT monogamous creatures. There’s your other false societal mores driven problem that needs resolving. Cows see a fence, they get a powerful urge to break through – and usually do. People see artificial fences put on expressing their sexual needs and break through – always will – until the fences are removed.

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  4. shatara46 says:

    Valerie, based on your write above, I can’t help but wonder at the amount of sexual craziness that must exist in those Muslim states under Sharia law and what the long-term results will be for those societies. Methinks man’s inability to deal with this great problem which has resulted in gross overpopulation and the eating up of dwindling resources can only mean earth’s endgame is already written.

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    • It is painful that many times in history we have moved toward a norm of thoughtful, intentional childbearing and one or another religion has thwarted it. And yes, the craziness under sharia must be wild. One London imam just exulted the possibility that under ISIS men will once more be able to have sex slaves.

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    • Perry Bulwer says:

      “I can’t help but wonder at the amount of sexual craziness that must exist in those Muslim states under Sharia law”

      Here’s an example of that “craziness”, which I would describe as disorderedness or criminalness.

      “Thousands of Afghan boys victims of serial rape for years due to perverse interpretation of Islamic law”

      “Sociologists and anthropologists say the problem results from perverse interpretation of Islamic law. Women are simply unapproachable. Afghan men cannot talk to an unrelated woman until after proposing marriage. Before then, they can’t even look at a woman, except perhaps her feet. Otherwise she is covered, head to ankle.”

      http://religiouschildabuse.blogspot.ca/2010/12/thousands-of-afghan-boys-victims-of.html

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  5. Perry Bulwer says:

    For more on this sordid subject, here’s a few dozen news articles related to religious authorities and child porn. While most of these are related to Catholics, there are some Anglicans, Baptists and other Protestants in there too. It’s not a comprehensive archive in that I didn’t search for material, I just entered articles I came across in my daily reading of several online news sites around the world.

    http://religiouschildabuse.blogspot.ca/2011/06/only-one-us-bishop-has-resigned-for.html

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  6. jcmmanuel says:

    So you are recommending the Bible Belt as a good place to enjoy life? ;)

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