15 Bible Texts Reveal Why “God’s Own Party” is at War with Women

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Why can’t GOP politicians trumpet their religious credentials without assaulting women?  Because fundamentalist religion of all stripes has degradation of women at its core.

Progressive Christians believe that the Bible is a human document, a record of humanity’s multi-millennial struggle to understand what is good and what is God and how to live in moral community with each other. But fundamentalists believe that the Bible is the literally perfect word of the Almighty, essentially dictated by God to the writers. To believe that the Bible is the perfect word of God is to believe that women are tainted seductresses who must be controlled by men.

Listen to early Church Father Tertullian: “You [woman] are the devil’s gateway: you are the unsealer of that (forbidden) tree: you are the first deserter of the divine law: you are she who persuaded him whom the devil was not valiant enough to attack. You destroyed so easily God’s image, man. On account of your desert—that is, death—even the Son of God had to die.”

Or take it from reformer John Calvin: “Woman is more guilty than man, because she was seduced by Satan, and so diverted her husband from obedience to God that she was an instrument of death leading to all perdition. It is necessary that woman recognize this, and that she learn to what she is subjected; and not only against her husband. This is reason enough why today she is placed below and that she bears within her ignominy and shame.”

Both Tertullian, a respected Catholic theologian, and Calvin, a leader of the Protestant Reformation, took their cues on this matter straight from the book of Genesis:

To the woman [God] said, I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you. -Genesis 3:16

No matter how outrageous Santorum and Gingrich may seem to secularists and moderate people of faith, they are right on target for an intended audience of Bible believing fundamentalists. If you have any doubt, check out these fifteen Bible passages.*

  1. A wife is a man’s property: You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor. Exodus 20:17
  2. Daughters can be bought and sold: If a man sells his daughter as a servant, she is not to go free as male servants do. Exodus 21:7
  3. A raped daughter can be sold to her rapist: 28 If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay her father fifty shekels of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives. Deuteronomy 22:28-29
  4. Collecting wives and sex slaves is a sign of status: He [Solomon] had seven hundred wives of royal birth and three hundred concubines, and his wives led him astray. 1 Kings 11:3
  5. Used brides deserve death: If, however the charge is true and no proof of the girl’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. Deuteronomy 22:20-21.
  6. Women, but only virgins, are to be taken as spoils of war: Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man, 18 but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man. Numbers 31:17-18
  7. Menstruating women are spiritually unclean: 19 “‘When a woman has her regular flow of blood, the impurity of her monthly period will last seven days, and anyone who touches her will be unclean till evening. 20 “‘Anything she lies on during her period will be unclean, and anything she sits on will be unclean. 21 Anyone who touches her bed will be unclean; they must wash their clothes and bathe with water, and they will be unclean till evening. 22 Anyone who touches anything she sits on will be unclean; they must wash their clothes and bathe with water, . . . 30 The priest is to sacrifice one for a sin offering and the other for a burnt offering. In this way he will make atonement for her before the LORD for the uncleanness of her discharge. 31 “‘You must keep the Israelites separate from things that make them unclean, so they will not die in their uncleanness for defiling my dwelling place,[a] which is among them.’” Leviticus 15: 19-31
  8. A woman is twice as unclean after giving birth to girl as to a boy: A woman who becomes pregnant and gives birth to a son will be ceremonially unclean for seven days, just as she is unclean during her monthly period. ‘ 3 On the eighth day the boy is to be circumcised. 4 Then the woman must wait thirty-three days to be purified from her bleeding. She must not touch anything sacred or go to the sanctuary until the days of her purification are over. 5 If she gives birth to a daughter, for two weeks the woman will be unclean, as during her period. Then she must wait sixty-six days to be purified from her bleeding. 6 ” ‘When the days of her purification for a son or daughter are over, she is to bring to the priest at the entrance to the tent of meeting a year-old lamb for a burnt offering and a young pigeon or a dove for a sin offering. Leviticus 12: 1-8
  9. A woman’s promise is binding only if her father or husband agrees: 2 When a man makes a vow to the LORD or takes an oath to obligate himself by a pledge, he must not break his word but must do everything he said. 3 “When a young woman still living in her father’s household makes a vow to the LORD or obligates herself by a pledge 4 and her father hears about her vow or pledge but says nothing to her, then all her vows and every pledge by which she obligated herself will stand. 5 But if her father forbids her when he hears about it, none of her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand; the LORD will release her because her father has forbidden her. . . . . A woman’s vow is meaningless unless approved by her husband or father. But if her husband nullifies them when he hears about them, then none of the vows or pledges that came from her lips will stand. Her husband has nullified them, and the LORD will release her. 13 Her husband may confirm or nullify any vow she makes or any sworn pledge to deny herself. Numbers 30:1-16
  10. Women should be seen not heard: Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 1 Corinthians 14:34
  11. Wives should submit to their husband’s instructions and desires: Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Colossians 3:18
  12. In case you missed that submission thing . . . :  Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 5:22-24.
  13. More submission – and childbearing as a form of atonement: A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety. 1 Timothy 2: 11-15
  14. Women were created for men: For if a woman does not cover her head, she might as well have her hair cut off; but if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, then she should cover her head. 7 A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but woman is the glory of man. 8 For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; 9 neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. 1 Corinthians 11:2-10
  15. Sleeping with women is dirty: No one could learn the song except the 144,000 who had been redeemed from the earth. 4 These are those who did not defile themselves with women, for they remained virgins. They follow the Lamb wherever he goes. They were purchased from among mankind and offered as first-fruits to God and the Lamb. Revelation 14:3-4

This list is just a sampling of the Bible verses that either instruct or illustrate proper relationships between men and women. In context, they often are mixed among passages that teach proper relationships with children, slaves and foreigners. The Bible doesn’t forbid either contraception or abortion, but it is easy to see why Bible believing fundamentalists might have negative feelings about both.

As futurist Sara Robinson has pointed out, traditional rules that govern male-female relationships are grounded more in property rights than civil rights. Men essentially have ownership of women, whose lives are scripted to serve an end—bearing offspring. It is very important to men that they know whose progeny they are raising, so sexual morality has focused primarily on controlling women’s sex activity and maintaining their “purity” and value as assets. Traditional gender roles and rules evolved on the presumption that women don’t have control over their fertility. In other words, modern contraception radically changed a social compact that had existed for literally thousands of years.

Some people don’t welcome change. Since the beginnings of the 20th Century, fundamentalist Christians have been engaged in what they see as spiritual warfare against secularists and modernist Christians. Both of their foes have embraced discoveries in fields such as linguistics, archeology, psychology, biology and physics – all of which call into question the heart of conservative religion and culture. Biblical scholars now challenge such “fundamentals” as a historical Adam, the Virgin Birth, the Resurrection and the special status that Abraham’s God gave to straight males. Fundamentalists are fighting desperately to hang on to certainties and privileges they once saw as an Abrahamic birthright. If they can’t keep women in line; it’s all over. The future ends up in the hands of cultural creatives, scientists, artists, inquiring minds, and girls. It’s horrifying.

*All verses are quoted the New International Version of the Bible, a favorite of evangelicals.

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Valerie Tarico is a psychologist and writer in Seattle, Washington.  She is the author of Trusting Doubt: A Former Evangelical Looks at Old Beliefs in a New Light and Deas and Other Imaginings, and the founder of www.WisdomCommons.org.  Her articles can be found at Awaypoint.Wordpress.com.


About Valerie Tarico

Seattle psychologist and writer. Author - Trusting Doubt and Deas and Other Imaginings. Founder - www.WisdomCommons.org.
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36 Responses to 15 Bible Texts Reveal Why “God’s Own Party” is at War with Women

  1. Great article — and a good reminder.

    Even in my lifetime, I’ve seen in working with title documents all the trouble there was when a widow tried to sell of her estate. Like suffrage, women’s civil rights are fairly new — even in the U.S. — because of religion.


  2. i j swamy says:

    Every religion treats women this way and women accept it .


    • Lucius says:

      Tibetan Buddhist women of the 19th century commonly had up to five husbands, and were closer to the ‘head’ of the household than any man. Countless African cultures are Matriarchal in nature. It’s not All religion, and all religions at their heart have a Divine Feminine (Judaism: Shekhinah; Christianity: Virgin Mary; Islam: Miryam (Mary) or Fatimah; Hinduism: Shakti, goddess of Fertility; Tibetan Tantra: Queen of the Diamond Realm (Divine Feminine in the Heart of all beings)). It’s a tragedy that these are the less-popular elements of the more familiar “Western” faiths. :)


  3. Great article from great city. Yes. Quite a number of religions are anti-women. Yet women love religion even though religions do not love them.


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  5. jeff croll says:

    and yet…how many “christian” american men find what islamic fundamentalists do to women disgusting? perhaps it is because they see themselves in the mirror and are repulsed?

    very good article.


  6. teresa3607 says:

    Reblogged this on Still, I am learning and commented:
    15 Biblical texts that “justify” the views currently espoused by the Republican Party.


  7. vbr says:

    Wow. I am bookmarking this and using as future reference. Great piece. Thank you.


  8. I don’t think men should use the Bible to make excuses for not respecting women. I wonder what Jesus would have to say for all of those who do?


  9. Nelson Petrie says:

    Valerie – I wonder what Jesus’ position was on women. He was very forgiving of the woman who committed adultery but why did he say’ Go and sin no more’? Jesus walked with fallen women too. How come the fundamentalists and the evangelicals don’t dwell deeper into what Jesus thought of women? They go by the OT and the writings of Paul, the misogynist. I like this article. I would also like you to share your views on faith. What is faith and how many people are duped by evangelical preachers as they tell them to have deeper faith.


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  12. genkakukigen says:

    Belatedly, a friend sent this very-nice article along, hoping I might find it interesting. I wrote back to him: “I did find it interesting, not least because, like similar articles, it questions a particular and repugnant point of view without addressing the issue of whether so-called male/female ‘roles’ are appropriate/useful/necessary in any context, spiritual context or otherwise … a sticky wicket indeed.”


  13. Randy Thompson says:

    And then along came Mary…
    “Ladies and gents, meet Mary Magdalene, the first apostle of the resurrection. Jesus sends her off to proclaim it to those still entombed in the culture of death. The shame his culture heaps on women is no deterrent to Jesus. He grants her honor now of liberating the entombed.” – John Dear in his book “Lazarus, Come Forth!”

    But then around the 4th century the leadership of the “followers” of Jesus were sold out to the Romans among evils – and the church starting building empires…


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  18. Kenneth says:

    If you believe in the old testament, than you are not a true Christian. Christ left the Jewish faith for a reason. The torah is not what Jesus was preaching. Jesus was teaching love and tolerance, not ‘an eye for an eye’. So, please don’t call yourself a Christian if you can not ‘turn the other cheek’.


    • donsalmon says:

      Actually, Jesus never left the Jewish faith. Now, he should have, but that’s another thing. In fact, if he had left explicit instructions to end all religions, he might have really made a difference!


  19. BK says:

    Wow, this is unbelievable. My family, who are good-intentioned people, want me to raise my daughter in a “Christian” manner. What does that really mean? The bible, koran, et al were written by male pigs who ruled the world, for male pigs who continue to rule the world. Sorry, there’s just no denying it. And as far as references, I checked the King James version and it was 99.9% the same. This is appalling and sickening. Maybe instead of not teaching this to my daughter, I will send her to Sunday school equipped with the truth and a backpack full of tough questions for the teacher.


    • Zion says:

      If we question the bible, then we still lack faith..we doubt ourselves every time someone says other. We’re still human and perfection is not even close. You said to equiped with the truth, and what would that be? Male pigs?.. Uh that’s funny. God did things with reasons. Inorder to understand, you first must believe that the word of God is not the word of man. It lives


      • Ah, so we should simply accept what the Bible says without questioning, no matter how horrible it is.


      • Having faith means to believe without evidence, as opposed to reason, which requires evidence. I realize reasoning things out takes time and energy, but isn’t the reward of actually knowing things, rather than merely pretending to know them, worth the effort?


  20. Pardon me but I don’t see how number 3 speaks or RAPE? It is merely speaking of intercourse outside of wedlock. And number for, may I also point out that Solomon did not COLLECT wives for status, he tried to marry to build allies with all kingdoms. If you also look more into the time and circumstances in which women were refused a voice in the church for your number 10, you may also find that there were logical reasons based on the times and what was happening in regards to trade during services. Love you blog though


  21. Mary says:

    I’m sure if you looked into the historic contexts, these were all inserted into the bible by the fathers of the church and weren’t from the gospels themselves.
    Just like we are to be baptised by the spirit only and not by water. The fathers put the words ‘and water’ in there something like 8 times so that people would go to the church and pay the stipend to have the water splashed on their heads.


  22. Lucius says:

    At the very least, 4, 7, 8, 13 and without doubt 15 are Pure Allegory. 4 is multi-faceted, 7, 8 and 13 are mainly Astrological, while 15 is predominantly Trigonometry.


  23. Ann Davenport says:

    Just discovered this very provocative blog and author via today’s article in AlterNet. Kudos to you, Valerie. If one goes back even further in history, when god was a woman, and study archeology and even modern anthropology, we see that for tens of thousands of years women were the divine beings, because:
    Miracle 1: she could bleed AND NOT DIE
    Miracle 2: when she decided to hold in her menstrual blood she thus created a baby human (before sex was known to be connected to having a fetus. She could have sex and not get pregnant sometimes, so it must be “when she decided”.) After all , we all know who the mother is.
    Miracle 3: she could feed this new human with her own blood.

    All of this went on for around 35 -40 THOUSAND years before the agricultural age. Perhaps by sharing calendars of the moon’s phases or other factors, men and women figured out that intercourse at certain times of the month brought about the pregnancy, and, more importantly for patriarchy, the father’s “seed” created the new human. “Why then, you (woman) are just the CARRIER for my seed!” Imagine how helpful that knowledge was for inventing stories of Abraham, or Zeus, or any of the other gods in cultures around the world.

    Here we are in 2014. Time to grow up now. Any true biblical scholar will admit that the whole Virgin Birth – Jesus fantasy story is just that. The new testament was written to seal lies told in the Old one. All other “holy books” Baghvad Gita, Qu´ran, Book of Mormon, any of them, were written by child-like male brains of quasi Neanderthals hoping to authorize their male god to advance their own desires of ownership. How would we know for sure who is the true father otherwise?

    Anyway, that’s my opinion based on my investigations on mythology, archeology and common sense. I appreciate your writings, Valerie, and thank you for your brave writings.
    Greetings from Olmué, Chile


  24. Angie says:

    Ugh. The Bible is truly a deplorable book, then.


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